Fall break will be here soon, and I know for some students seeing extended family members can bring about a lot of extra pressure – mostly because of what they get asked: What do you want to be when you grow up? Different versions of this question can produce a lot of anxiety, especially if the student doesn’t have a clear answer. It’s not my favorite to ask, because I think it reinforces an outdated idea that your identity is tied to a profession, and that doesn’t always resonate with this generation.
Don’t get me wrong, I strongly believe students need to think about their future and reflect on what they want for their lives, but I think there are more productive ways to start that conversation. If you find yourself around the dinner table and want to talk long-term plans – consider these alternatives instead: What subject do you like learning about the most? Do you know where other graduates in your major are working? What companies do you think would be nice to work for? Is there a cause you’re passionate about?
Happy chatting!
Megan Raney
Director of Career Development